How Ordinary Are You??

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen:

How Ordinary Are You? 

Many of you may say "very" and there are few who may say "not at all." The few who would say "not at all" is the group I most relate to but I would like to speak to the "very" group tonight. Very ordinary may seem like an extreme compliment because it doesn't seperate you, outcasts you, point you out or condemns you in any manner but the not at all classifies you as weird, crazy, different, and something wrong. When in all actuality, there is something wrong with desiring to be just like everyone else, wishing, hoping to be like everyone else. I've come across a thousand teenagers in high school and they all sound the same, dress the same, look the same and began to act the same in school causing me not to be able to differentiate one from another. Why is that? I believe in our childhood we are often taught that being different is a problem, if you sit and everyone else is standing, you are pointed out and ridiculed; if you cry while everyone else is laughing, you are ridiculed without question or concern as to why and that is what causes kids to form a misperceptions that being different, standing out is a problem and it is better to fit in with society, agree with society's standards then form your own mindset and way of thinking. By the time most kids are in middle school, they are trying to discover who they feel they are at a young age and are curious as to so many things that their natural childlike mind would not dare to think. By high school, a huge misconception is formed that right is where the majority is, not what God says, not what God has spoken but what the majority feels is okay and acceptable. Is there anybody willing to be bold and honest about who they are and not give two cents of thought to what someone else feels about who they are? Stop living to be cool, everyone you're trying to impress could careless about you so start living to please God. At the end of the day, he is the one person that never leaves you nor forsake you. God could never see you fall and not pick you up. Trust him in all that you do and know that who he created to be is perfect for you and is not up to anyone else to like, love or appreciate. 

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay H. 

"Still Standing" Monica at DTLR in Baltimore

 Hello Ladies and Gentlemen and Everything In Between: 

Today, I went to go see the amazing mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend Mrs. Monica Brown and how could I forget phenomenal singer. I drove an hour and a half to attend her meet and greet which was worth our three selfies. 

Monica was very sweet to all her fans. She hugged and spoke to everyone who was there to meet her. She had about one hundred and fifty people in line I would say. The first 50 in front of me, had full conversations, old cd's signed and pictures taken. By the time, the line got to me it was switched around to only pictures, no autographs which was fine with me.

I walked up to Monica, gave her a hug, took my photo and she asked did I want to take selfies because it was dark in there?; I said yes, we took a good three to four and I left. 

The experience was definitely worth it. I would recommend others to go out and see Monica when she comes to their city. She's such an inspirational woman. A woman of God and not afraid to be herself. 

The location was good. The mall had some nice stores in it with cute clothes, I felt safe but it was extremely hot. So hot, my allergies were acting up and I had to take a pill. I hope they turn their air condition on next time. 

Also, seen a friend I used to blog with, who is also a photographer and she is always on the job!!  Visit her website at www.shamyalynn.com

Please purchase "Code Red" when it comes out!! 📲 Pre-Order now on iTunes.com

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time 

Marshay H. 

Rights in October 2013 (Something Ain't Right)

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen and Everything In Between:

Ok, if you haven't seen by now, I have been creating my own channel HOT SUGAR SHOWROOM and let's be sure to mention, I am just getting started!!

Check out a few of my videos below:

But I really came here to talk about Chris Brown and his recent arrest

• As reported on Sunday morning, October 27, 2013, Chris Brown for punching a man in front of the W Hotel at 4:30 am. 

Once Trey Songz made it through a crowd of fans outside to enter the courtroom to support his friend, ABC7 reporter Jennifer Donelan reports the courtroom became completely overpacked.

• Been homies since day 1. Im talking bout got money together so much like bros if you aint have it on you my nigga it was nothing i got you! Same on both ends! Keep yo head up stay focused you got a gift that your fans appreciate. Dont give these people no more reason to talk. Deliver them hits and focus on what YOU gotta do! Love my G #Freemyhomie! Hood & @wackstar yall scream at me let me know the 411! Hit No word if he'll be back home in time to host his Halloween Costume Party at L.A. live.

Chris' family is now being moved to a separate room since there are no seats in the main courtroom .

There are also reports of extra US Marshals, who are heavily armed, being stationed around the courthouse.

Still, no details on the actual arraignment have surfaced as it has not yet finished, but Team Breezy supporters are letting the world know where they stand.  Signs like the ones below are popping up all around the Superior Court:Chris Brown is scheduled to face a judge at the D.C. Superior Courthouse this morning.  Deets inside...

"Love More" singer Chris Brown is about to face the music this AM after a scuffle with another man went down outside the W Hotel in D.C. early Sunday morning.  The fiasco caused Chris to cop a felony assault charge.

• A 20-year-old man from Beltsville, MD claims he attempted to jump in a picture Chris agreed to take with a female fan. He says Chris punched him and he suffered bruising and swelling in the nose area.  He was treated and released from the hospital.

According to Chris' camp, though, they say the real story is that the victim didn't (only) photobomb, but he tried to board the tour bus.  And they were reacting to his trespassing.

The police report also states, as told by D.C.'s WUSA9 News, it was Chris' 34-year-old BODYGUARD....not Chris like other reports stated....who said, "I'm not into that gay sh*t...I feel like boxing."

Since Chris is still on probation for the Rihanna domestic violence incident, his probation is now in danger of being in violation.  Check out the news report below:

Source: theybf.com

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay

ARTS in October 2013: Forget That Fast

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen and Everything In Between:

I was watching a recent episode of the Kardashians and Khloe thought something was wrong because she couldn't remember things from her childhood!! I have bad memory, too and it reminded of a poem I wrote recently titled "Forget That Fast."

Forget that Fast

Buy you a car and a new pair of shoes
Does everything to be your dude!!
Did you forget that fast that it never did last?
Or do you call that forgiving?
I know women who keep sinning
Who know they are wrong but the attraction is so strong
He is not gonna make it work
No matter how much you try
He'll always go to the other side
You think you have solved the puzzle
Have the key to his heart
But you two couldn't be farther apart
There's a quote that says "you remember what you want"
And as women, that's what we sometimes do 
We have a tendency to forget the truth
When honestly he's been showing you
the entire time, where you belong in his life and what he's willing to do
You're suffering from a tragedy, you get Pain and Love confused

To be Continued......

Tell me what you think about the poem by commenting below and subscribe if you like (Love)

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay

"DO IT FOR VINE"otherwise known as MUSIC IN OCTOBER

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen and Everything In Between:

• I discovered a little known secret named VINE recently and I've been obsessed ever since I was introduced to it through ppl. talking about it through Instagram then my cousin reminded me to go look at it.

VIDEOS LIKE THIS:
Rachet Puff Girls by the hilarious Emmanuel Hudson, do you watch him on Wild N'Out, he brings life to that show?? LOVE HIM!!

SAW THIS VIDEO AND PLAYED IT 100,000: ForeverFreshFRELAN
Love when he says "ahchoo, bless you, thank you face ass"Funniest Video w/Great Skills

"My favorite video on Vine so far, I crack up laughing watching this video, he sound just like Scooby Doo"     - Marshay

((LOL, LOL< LOL, LOLLLLLLLL))

Subscribe to him on Vine, Please and Thank You

IF YOU LIKE IT< THEN YOU SHOULD OF PUT A RING ON IT

2013 Compilation Video from Vine

If Trey Songz had kids????

Man, I know a few men that sound just like this but they talk about women, 

Do you know any (Be honest)) ???

If Obama wasn't President, Where and What would he be??

Subscribe to my channel on youtube: Marshay Herder

 I wish I was funny enough to make Vine Videos like the ones you've just watched but that's a dream too far-fetched!!

I guess I'll go to sleep on that note, PRAY 4 ME~~

But not only that, there are some amazing singers on Vine and I love music so it's perfect for me!!

Love M'Rose, Mario Smith and ForeverFresh Ferlan 

Also, Damintanavonne and MarcoSingz_  

_Comment below with your vine name so I can check you out_

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay

BABBY, BAAAABEY, Baby

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen and Everything In Between:

Black Griffin just had a baby

Who knew that Blake Griffin had impregnated NFL QB Matt Leinart's baby mother??

Well here's a shocker.  LA Clippers star Blake Griffin had time to make a baby during the last NBA season.  Because, according to a circulating birth certificate, he and 27-year-old blondie Brynn Cameron welcomed a bouncing baby named Ford Wilson Cameron-Griffin on August 1st.

Brynn is a former USC basketball player.  But she's most known for sharing a 7-year-old son named Cole Cameron Leinart with NFL QB Matt Leinart, who was just released from the Buffalo Bills last month.  The two broke up before she had the baby and had some serious child support drama going on.  That's all been smoothed over with Brynn getting a cool $15K/month, but will it all start up again with Blake?

The twosome started dating back in 2011, but broke up before the baby was born.

As for how Brynn & Blake met, aside from her apparent get-sponsored-by-an-athlete skills....

Brynn's younger brother, Jordan Cameron, also was a USC athelete who entered the NFL. Right before the 2011 draft, Blake Griffin helped Jordan make a funny video to get the scouts' attention. So Blake & Brynn possibly could have met through Jordan. Brynn's brother explained how he first met Blake in an interview last year with Cleveland.com:

"My roommate in college was James Dunleavy and his dad was the Clippers coach at the time. So we kind of got him acclimated to town and showed him around. We started hanging out from that. We had an idea for a video and my agent got involved, and it took off from there."

Source: theybf.com

Have you seen "Black Ink" New Episode that premiered tonight?

I'm typing this as I watch the show but they definitely have baby mama drama.

• Oh' Shit's baby mother came into the family dinner that was supposed to celebrate Oh' Shit being free and instead the mother of his son came in and said "I'm leaving if she staying", then started swinging.

• Oh' Shit diffused the situation and the mother of his son left.

Did you see the video of Trey Songz singing Babey,Baby, Baaaabby?

STYLE IN July 2013

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen and Everything In Between: 

HAPPY 23rd BIRTHDAY SOULJA BOY!!

In West Hollywood, Los Angelos at Bootsy Bellows. First, let me say, I didn't know they were still together but I'm happy for them. I think Diamond is so pretty but that hair is a mess. I don't like these platinum/brown braids but I loved her with the bob a few years back.

Miss Mykie from 106&Park

We haven't seen  her in a while but this is what she  had to say to Ebony Magazine about leaving 106 &Park,
"It’s all love with BET and it will always be. I support BET and they support me 100 percent with my future endeavors. We communicated about what was going on. It’s the TV and entertainment world and you have to prepare yourself for transitions that may come. Change is inevitable. I have grown to understand that it’s just a part of life. It allows you to learn more about yourself. It can be scary or it can be exciting, and whether you like the situation or not you have to keep it moving and make the best of it." 

Miss Mykie will be using Instagram videos to have her own first ever talk-show

Great Idea to be Innovative but Videos on Instagram are only 15 sec, is that enough time to say anything about Pop Culture!! Idk yet but we'll see!!

Do you know who this is?

• Remember her from America's Next  Top Model, she was the dancer who always took amazing photos but her ego sometimes got in the way but it also has pushed her to come into second place against Eva Pigford.
• She looks so beautiful pregnant, I am loving this pretty blue dress and her eccentric bush. 

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay

ARTS in July

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen and Everything In Between:

Chris Brown is on the cover of this year's "BLANK" MAGAZINE








Chris Brown's latest and hottest song "Fine China" is doing well on charts!!

His album  is coming out August 20th, 2013!!
be sure to get your copy or a couple of copies if you want.

Let Me Be honest and tell you that I am a huge music lover but I dont have albums, I only have three albums, BEYONCE< TREY SONGZ<CHEETAH GIRLS!!


For the cover, Mr. Breezy went on his high fashion tip and posed in a classic black and white tuxedo, while the rest of the pictorial shows him posing by a pool and inside a Hollywood Hills mansion. The black and white spread was shot by photographers Gomillion and Leupold.








Ms. Skylar Diggins is doing amazing this year and other years as well but she has Signed with ROC NATION SPORTS AND IS NOW THE SPOKESWOMAN FOR NIKE AIR FORCE 1

Not only is she good on the court but she's gorgeous!!

 

I wish I wouldve signed her, I need to hurry up and create my label.

Skylar recently tweeted, "Had a great time at the Nike AF1 event! What a great crowd!

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In other news, Kevin McCall and my girl Eva Marcille posted their support for Trayvon via Instagram

 

 

• You should watch the Show "THE REAL" on Fox 5 AT 11AM

KIM FIELDS
 
Kim Fields, the child actress turned Hollywood director is expecting at 44 years old.
 R.I.P. Talia (this pic is gorgeous by the way)

 

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay

Music In July

Hello Ladies a nd Gentlemen and Everythin In Between:

MY GOD, MY GOD< ITS JULY Its the 16th already and Im just now completing this post.



"They've been on...and it was like a family reunion backstage at the Toyota Center last night. The "I Been On" chick was welcomed by her long time H-Town homies Scarface, Bun B., Slim Thug, Z-Ro and more before she hit the stage. She and her hubby Jay-Z snapped pics with everybody"


From: theybf.com Love Beyonce's little cutesy outfit in this photo........................

Bun's daughter Tay snapped the pic above, and he got a pic of Bey giving her a hug.  Where is Blue Ivy during this picture? Did you see her recent photos with Blue in Miami on the  beach.


iN OTHER MUSIC ARTISTS RELATED NEWS:

Chris Brown Probation was revoked!!

 

Chris, you look a little worried, loosen up but if he does anything to revoke his probation, he could get up to four years in jail.  

 

 

 

Doesn't he look cute in this picture above???

 

Comment Below, where it says NO Comments, Click on it and begin to write your comment

 

 

Source (My Fav site): theybf.com

 

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay

YOUTUBE IN JULY

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen and Everything In Between:

• Let's not go into youtube videos this time because I cant think of any, out of 1,000,000,000 of them that exist so this time we'll just discuss the R and  B Divas of Atlanta and LA.

Reality is one of the biggest media outlets today and I happen to be one of its main supporters.

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R and B Divas LA is set to Premiere as R and B Divas Atlanta ended on July 10, 2013

R and B Divas Atlanta
 

• I love this show, let's start with that. It is entertaining and informing!! There are several women on this show (5 main ladies + a couple of featured ladies who are becoming stars themselves through this reality show such as Monifah's fiance and Syleena's sister).

 

 

"I feel as though all of the singers on this show are women who started their careers at a young age and have tried to reach a certain point in their careers whatever that may be to them and at some point, reached a subliminal  obstacle that got in the way and made them take a slight turn. They are now on their journey to discovery and recovery, with the destination of a R and B Divas Tour. "

                                                                                                                  -Marshay 

 

 

 

1. My favorite DIVA of them all, Ms KeKe Wyatt. Ms. KeKe Wyatt is hilarious and full of a vibrant personality that makes you want to continue to watch the show. She has a whole bunch of kids which is nice and a husband named Michael JAMAR. Not only that but she has a voice that ould literally knock you out of your seat. I could go on and on about Ke Ke and I think she would like that but I'm going to give the other ladies a few minutes of my time.
2. 

   Nicci Gilbert aka Ms. Mouth all Mighty (I love you Nicci, trust me, I do) but I called her Mouth all Mighty because she is bold, outspoken and often abrasive. There is nothing wrong with being bold, it just sometimes could backfire. Nicci, I have to say that when Syleena told you off, it was hilarious!!!! I'm laughing right now as I write this. Nicci does need to watch how she treats people and what she says to them but she's not a bad person, that Im sure of just a little bitter.
3. Syleena Johnson, hasn't been the nicest throughout the season but she has tried to keep peace by inviting Nicci to her home, by speaking to Nicci gently but one wrong thing that Nicci said and everything spirals out of control. I just wish her and Nicci get it together, immediately for the sake of the tour but for the sake of the show, they probably will stay where they are at.
4. Monifah, is my second favorite R and B Diva from Atlanta, she is cool, funny, and smart. Every time the girls get into a debate, she is the one to cool the confusion.

 

Order tickets to see KEKE WYATT IN CONCERT WITH LIL MO on July 17th 2013 at Howard Theatre.

 

 

KeKe Wyatt

 

 

Syleena Johnson

 

Nicci Gilbert




Faith Evans



Angie Stone
MOTHER OF THE SINGERS

The only one I knew before this show was Faith Evans, the rest are all new to me.

 

 

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay

ABOUT US IN AMERICA

ABOUT US IN AMERICA
Below is just a few things that I was thinking about it, and I was wondering what you were thinking also. So, sit down and relax as you read this post and try to think about what I am saying and if its any truth to it. It's time to get up, get out and get something!!

---- We call ourselves LAND of the Free--- But who is truly free?? R we honestly able to do what it is that we set out to do whether bad, good or indifferent. How are we Free when there are limitations on how we can dress, speak, act and be???

Do I believe there should be limitations? Of course I do because I believe that as humans with minds(the ability to think), we can come up with various things to do that are not in God's will.



I've spoken to people who have made decisions based off  feeling like they have no other option but we live in America, the home of the brave and land of the free, right???


America is named after Amerigo Vespucci, the Italian explorer who set forth the then revolutionary concept that the lands that Christopher Columbus sailed to in 1492 were part of a separate continent. A map created in 1507 by Martin Waldseemüller was the first to depict this new continent with the name "America," a Latinized version of "Amerigo."

I often wonder why we have so many stereotypes because as far as life has taken us, that is all that we have seen or known to be true. I know that as people we were created by God whom we should put as the leader of our lives and we should follow?? But should we at all measures except boundaries that are set by past laws, actions and rules. I have grown to see that we as the American People go along with Obama, when he says CHANGE but are we honestly ready to, as I write this know that I am also speaking to myself. Am I ready to except Change? I know that in order to except change, I must be willing to change and I am not quite sure if  I am willing to change completely.

• What type of change am I speaking of?

- I am mainly talking about the setup of this country and the things that we have become accustomed too.  I believe as Americans, we feel entiltled or a sense of ownership over things that do not belong to us when in actuality what work have we put in to receive these things like we automatically assume that things in this world will be given to us. You have to put in to get out just like an an ATM, you put your card in, you get some money out unless your account is empty which means that you haven't put anything in or you've already taken everythhing out. Think about IT>>>>>>>>>>>

Think About It, This is like a church sermon, apply into you or your life in some way, form or fashion!! (LOL)

 

At the end of the day, all I can say is........... 

http://www.loc.gov/wiseguide/aug03/america.html

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay

RIGHTS for JUNE

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen and Everything In Between:

I'm writing this on the first day of Summer, and next week, the weather is going to be in the 90's!!

I know you heard about Chad Ochocinco smacking his lawyer's butt and being put in jail for 30 days but then apologizing and having his time in jail shortened to one week.

SERENA OPINION ON THE SIXTEEN YEAR OLD RAPE

But it was her recent comments she made to Rolling Stone about the high school boys in Steubenville, OH who were accused of raping a teen girl.  People said she was victim-blaming when she spoke up saying the victim was "lucky" (likely meaning lucky something worse didn't happen) and that girls should be taught how not to get themselves in situations like those (being drunk and not in control).

I'm not blaming the girl, but if you're a 16-year-old and you're drunk like that, your parents should teach you—don't take drinks from other people. She's 16, why was she that drunk where she doesn't remember? It could have been much worse. She's lucky. Obviously I don't know, maybe she wasn't a virgin, but she shouldn't have put herself in that position, unless they slipped her something, then that's different."

Serena's most recent statement alluded to her words being misconstrued by RS.  She said:

"What happened in Steubenville was a real shock for me. I was deeply saddened. For someone to be raped, and at only sixteen, is such a horrible tragedy! For both families involved — that of the rape victim and of the accused. I am currently reaching out to the girl's family to let her know that I am deeply sorry for what was written in the Rolling Stone article. What was written — what I supposedly said — is insensitive and hurtful, and I by no means would say or insinuate that she was at all to blame.

"I have fought all of my career for women's equality, women's equal rights, respect in their fields — anything I could do to support women I have done. My prayers and support always goes out to the rape victim. In this case, most especially, to an innocent sixteen year old child.

Cast of "The Best Holiday"
I watched this movie a 1000 times on DVD when that was all I had. NO CABLE WAS MADE BY DVD's!!


Paula Deen got fired from THE FOOD NETWORK for racist comments such as the "N Word"


Pauala's Apology: “I want to apologize to everybody for the wrong that I’ve done. I want to learn and grow from this. Inappropriate and hurtful language is totally, totally unacceptable.”

This time, Paula seem more relaxed and offered a more "detailed" apology.

"Your color of your skin, your religion, your sexual preference does not matter...I was wrong, yes, I’ve worked hard, and I have made mistakes, but that is no excuse and I offer my sincere apology to those that I have hurt, and I hope that you forgive me because this comes from the deepest part of my heart.”

 

Unfortunately for Paula, the two attempts were not enough to save her gig at the FOOD Network.  A spokeswoman for the network told TMZ that Paula Deen’s contract would not be renewed when it expired at the end of June.

 

Although the FOOD Network didn't offer any specifics about the non-renewal, it looks like they couldn't stand the heat...and put Paula out of the kitchen.

              I know you heard that my TEAM HEAT WON!!!!
Congrats Lebron James, who is marrying his high school sweetheart Savannah Brinson, the mother of his two kids!!

Adios Amigos, Until Next Time

Marshay